The Benefits Of Quickies
Why is it that everybody seems to be obsessed by different sex techniques?. All that how to or tips on, there is tons of info on there to make your sex life better, but how about impulsiveness and spontaneity. Have we lost it? The sex essence, impulsive desire, passionate sex, when both of you are so horny and want it now. Seem like we forgot about the pleasure of the spontaneous quickie. It seems many of us are bringing books and magazines to their bedrooms and are making a kind of sex seminar instead of simply having pleasure and enjoying.
Quickie doesn’t mean bad sex, or not quality sex. Its just the variant of it and having sex in a forbidden place or situation may actually make both or you closer, improve your relationships. Its like sharing with your partner something nobody else can share and creating a more tight intimate connection between the two of you. Its like having a secret no one but you two will ever know. And all these make this experience really exciting.
Additional dose of adrenaline is added by the thought of being discovered while having quickie in a public place. A single thought of having sex at a party, at a restaurants restroom, at the office, at the stares, at a public park can be very arousing and stimulating. The naughtiness of the situation will wind up both of you and lead to a very passionate and delicious sex, which actually can be much better than the common sexual intercourse you have in your beds.
What about the foreplay, the importance of which was discussed and highlighted in hundreds of articles and books on sexology? Skip it, the adrenaline in your blood will compensate for any foreplay.
Quickie sex is also about experimenting. Just imagine what exotic and awkward position you will have to invent while having sex in, let’s say, a not very comfortable position. It’s a good chance to apply your sex creativeness and sex fantasies in real. Besides, the view of your partially dressed partner is very sexy. Picture your lover held against the wall, or bend over the stares with her breasts outside the bra, her knickers around her knees, it can easily be an erotic fantasy not least.
So, what holds you back from having quickies? Some people think that by showing their partner that they want a quick sex they offend them in some way. But in fact, if you’re horny and lusting for your partner, wanting quick sex will only assure your partner that you are still very much arouse by him/her.
The most amazing thing about quickie is freedom in everything. There is no right place or time for quickie. It’s only up to you and your imagination not any circumstances. Any circumstance doesn’t matter if you want it now, and if you want it badly. No doubt you will find both place and time, as there is variety to choose between. Look around how many options you have: office table, garden hedge, even a bathroom will do if you’re really desperate. Keep your erotic feelings for each other fresh and experiment with them. Enjoy, just try not to get caught in a public place ;).