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Introduction to Swinging — Part 1

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Hello, For those who do not know me (and you should), let me introduce myself, my name is Sandi Andersen and Ted (my husband) and I promote Recreational Promiscuity for Adults. I’m not talking about promoting cheating; I am talking about assisting loving couples who are searching for ways to jazz up their marriage and sex life. Almost every person knows of someone who is cheating on their spouse. This does not imply they do not care for their wife or husband; all they are seeking is to recapture the passion that they did have in their sex life. They need a little something above what they are getting right now. Allow me tell you that I love (more…)


How To Ruin Your Online Swinging Success

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It is hard these days to meet anyone who has not tried online dating, unless they are not single or on the internet. As for swingers who are on the internet, they are generally a member of at least one site, some are members of many sites (I don’t know how they keep track of it all).

As you are reading this article right now, I am going on the assumption that you ARE online – so please pay attention as I am going to go over some things that can be crucial for your online success with meeting people. (more…)


Negotiate The Rules First

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Always negotiate the rules before you are in any sexual situation. Nothing is harder to do than stopping in the middle of sex to tell your partner that you won’t have sex unless he uses a condom, dental dam, etc., or that one of your rules with swinging is that you don’t kiss the other partner. Communicating with your partner(s) is the best way to insure that everyone has a pleasurable sexual experience and that you protect (more…)


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