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Reasons Why You Should Not Consider Swinging

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Should you try Swinging?

There is certainly as many wrong reasons to decide to start swinging as there are correct reasons. Here are a few of the wrongs ones that come to mind. (more…)


Becoming A Swinger, Things To Discuss With Your Partner

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Before Becoming A Swinger

Each couple within the swinger lifestyle has a collection of rules, or as I like to call them guidelines, which they follow in order to not cause any problems.

These guidelines need to be be discussed with every prospective swing partner prior to going to the play room. You do not want to find out that the other couple has a rule against kissing other people right after you lay one on her/him (so to speak). (more…)


Shy Newbie Swingers

Hi Sandi, my husband and I would like to attend your Swingers Club, but we’re not really sure if we want to get involved physically yet and don’t know how comfortable we would be getting naked in front of other people.  Would it be OK if we kept our clothes on when we go into the back room at your Club and just watched everyone having sex?  It might help get us into the “Swing” of things as it were.  Laurie and Lawrence

First things first, Ted and I do (more…)


Which Is A Better Fit For You, Soft or Full Swinging?

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If you are an inexperienced swinger, it’s possible you are not be familiar with some of the various terminology that you could be exposed to, for instance Soft Swinging or Hard Swinging (often known as Full Swap). Let me help fill you in on what the difference is so you will not be caught off guard.

Soft Swinging

Most swingers start out here, and many stay with this type of swinging. You can find other definitions on the internet but the commonly accepted definition is that Soft swinging (more…)


Introduction to Swinging — Part 2

 

Swingers laying naked in a bedThis is the continuation of my Introduction Into Swinging. Don’t forget to check out part 1 if you missed it.

What About Jealousy?

Now think about it, what is the single thing many couples fear? Will he/she run off with someone else? Generally affairs occur when one partner is wanting something that is missing from their relationship. A lot of times this is merely some sexual exhilaration. You need to realize, if we won’t learn some new tricks this dog is going to get old. When you have sex with someone else you virtually have no choice (more…)


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