It’s really easy and really hard simultaneously to receive your very first invitation to a Swingers Party also known as a House Party. I do know that seems confusing, but read this article to the end to find out what I mean.
The easy part is that all you have to do is discover a swinger who is putting together a swinger’s party (or going to one) and then talk them into letting you go. Okay, so that is not as easy to do as it was to write. See what I mean about how it can sound a little confusing.
First Step To Going To A Swingers Party
Let us begin with meeting someone first.
It tends to be outgoing couples which receive the most invites, as everyone likes someone who is outgoing instead of a wall flower. So when you are at a swing club, be sure you do not just hide out in the corner of the room as nobody will see you. Instead, why don’t you go park yourself at the bar? It is so much easier to meet others when you are standing at the bar. Everyone will have to get a drink at some point during the night so they will be right beside you. Now say something really interesting to them like… “Hi”, keep in mind they are there to meet people too. Just by saying hi you seem open for them to talk to you, keep in mind that they may be a nervous also.
All of a sudden you will be chatting away with someone you find interesting. The more people you encounter the more likely you will find someone compatible.
Congratulations, you now have a friend or two in the swinging lifestyle.
Now to find a swingers party.
Mention that you are new (that is if you are — it is not acceptable to lie), chances are that seeing as you are a beginner, someone will jump on you, so to speak. Actually what I am saying is that since everyone was a beginner at one point we all try to help out the “newbies” which is what you will be called for a little while.
When talking with people be sure to talk about that you are thinking about attending a swingers party, that you have never experienced one and are curious as to what to imagine it will be like. Never be aggressive, just curious. Showing an interest could be just the thing that can put you over the top and get an invite.
House parties are commonly a good mix of seasoned veterans and newbies. Many people who host house parties like to help beginners start out in a low pressure atmosphere, which is exactly what a house party is.
Remember while there are swingers house parties happening all the time, the group you are talking to may not have one going on at this moment. Hold back and things will all work out and before long you will be on the house party circuit.
Be sure you also have a look at my other articles about swinging and what to expect at your first swinger’s house party, and find out how to get invited back to a swingers house party (you don’t want to ruin things after you worked so hard to get the first invite).
Next, we need to know what to expect at a swingers party, and just how to get an invitation back, plus how to meet the swingers who will be there. This is just the tip of the iceberg for your journey into the world of Swingers and hopefully you will get your invitation to a Swingers Party very soon.