Hello, For those who do not know me (and you should), let me introduce myself, my name is Sandi Andersen and we here at SandiOnSwinging.com promote Recreational Promiscuity for Adults. I’m not talking about promoting cheating; I am talking about assisting loving couples who are searching for ways to jazz up their marriage and sex life. Almost every person knows of someone who is cheating on their spouse. This does not imply they do not care for their wife or husband; all they are seeking is to recapture the passion that they did have in their sex life. They need a little something above what they are getting right now. Allow me tell you that I love when we receive a telephone call or email that says “Thank you so much for helping us get started in the Swinging Lifestyle, my wife and I have never been more happy“, or “We have been thinking about doing this since we first saw your magazine (or saw your website) 6 months ago and were certain you were the one to help us get going.”
What Exactly Is Swinging?
Swinging is ultimately “recreational sex” between consenting adults. Typically one, if not every partners are married. I like to think of it as “Recreational Promiscuity for Adults“. I am talking about just having some safe sexual fun with other consenting adults. Life is way too short, so why not enjoy it?
Swinging is a celebration of life and is absolutely part of society. Each and every adult person does, or at least should, have a healthy sex life, the trouble is not all couples can satisfy that need for their partner for a lifetime. Humans are not monogamous by nature; the natural instinct in order for the species to survive is to procreate. Religious conviction is what conditioned humans to marry and have only one partner. I think that Mother Nature has done such an excellent job creating man so why should we fight her original plan?
Just Who Exactly Are Swingers?
Swingers are everyday people, much like you and me. In general they’re couples who are in an emotionally monogamous relationship, but have a reduced amount (or even none) of the customary hang-ups usually associated with sex. Such as, sex is to just be enjoyed with your one lifelong partner, and if you go outside of this rule you will go to… well you already know where I am going with this one. Swingers tend to be more sexually liberated than most others .
Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, backgrounds, status levels, etc. Everything from blue collar workers to respectable attorneys (okay, maybe that wasn’t a good example). Essentially, swingers extend across every walk of life. Even your next door neighbor may just be a swinger, be careful! They are loving, family oriented couples with strong ties to their communities, they have just taken out sexual repression from their relationship. Swingers discover that engaging in a range of sexual activities with other people strengthens their primary relationship. Once you have seen your partner intimate with someone else there is definitely nothing you two can’t discuss.
Simply consider all the new things you will discover from someone else, all the new sexual experiences you will have. It just makes life more fulfilling.
This is just part 1 of my Introduction To Swinging, to give you a good summary of the Swinging LifeStyle. Be sure to also read part 2 so you do not miss anything. Keep watching for more on this very involved subject as I will continue to write as much as I can on it for you.
~ Play Safe, just like me… Sandi (from SandiOnSwinging.com)